| | Alcoholics for Christ is a non-denominational, non-profit Christian fellow-
ship for the alcoholic {substance abuser.} and their families and is ded-
icated to the propagation of the Gospel of Jesus Christ, as well as the
sharing of His burden for lost and hurting individuals.
It is a fellowship that restores HOPE where there has been despair: LOVE
where there has been fear; and JOY where there has been sadness.
We believe that "God as we understand Him is the Triune God;" "God the
Father," "God the Son," and "God the Holy Spirit" -- and that acceptance of
Jesus Christ as personal Savior is the doorway to fullness of life in the
Spirit as well as the means by which we can turn our lives and our will
completely over to Him.
This fellowship uses the Word of God as its primary source of direction and
those leading the meetings are all born-again compassionate Christians,
dedicated to the service of Jesus Christ.
Our chief goal is to direct or restore the alcoholic, their families and/or
concerned persons to a sincere and dedicated relationship with Jesus Christ
and, through the written Word of God, make the alcoholic aware of the mighty
tools available to him as a "born-again believer."
We agree that drunkenness is a sin and we believe that alcoholism is a
disease with spiritual origins. We rejoice that Jesus forgives us of our
sins and heals us of our diseases. Both Scripture and science indicate that
there can be an inherited trait in the alcoholic. This "trait" may be
triggered in some by persistent rebellious abuse of alcohol (drunkenness)
while in others, relatively casual use is all that is needed to set it in
motion and: whether we describe it as a predisposition to alcoholism or, the
results of a curse ("visiting the iniquities of the fathers upon the children
to the third and fourth generation - Ex 20:5), the cure is to be found in
total abstinence through Jesus Christ.
The Lord delivers some persons immediately from the compulsion and desire to
drink, for others He does it gradually. In either case, the requirements for
maintaining deliverance are total abstinence and an ever increasing relation-
ship with the Lord. We believe that God wants us "chemically free" and that
it is not his purpose to make "social drinkers" out of drunks. God heals us
by removing the compulsion and desire and restoring us to Himself, but should
we choose to drink again, we activate that "physical trait" which still
remains in us as potentially dangerous as ever. ("Sin crouches at the door,
it desires to have you ." - Gen 4:7)
The alcoholic and family members who attend local AA or Alanon groups are
encouraged to remain active in them and, where possible, to continue to
worship within their own body of believers. However, we do recommend where
no strong denominational ties exist, regular attendance in a Bible-believing
church of their choice.
*While the references deal primarily with alcoholism and the alcoholic the
spiritual principles set forth in AC are applicable to all persons and their
families who are, or have been, chemically dependent, regardless of the
nature of the addiction.
ALCOHOLICS FOR CHRIST BIBLE/STEP STUDY GROUPS
(Note: We respectfully acknowledge that the 12 Steps presented herein,
except for slight modifications emphasizing our beliefs, are the time proven
Steps used with such success in the great program of Alcoholics Anonymous.)
BASIC MATERIAL -- The discussion groups are based on the following 12 Steps
together with selected scriptures that confirm their importance in God's plan
for our lives. Included in the following pages is a list of questions
pertaining to the scriptures selected for each Step. The questions
themselves are only intended as tools, by which the meaning of the scriptures
can be explored and interaction at the tables developed. Any authorized
version of the Bible may be used in these studies but, because the questions
were developed using the New International Version (NIT), copies of the
scriptures taken from the NIT have also been included.
LAYING THE GROUNDWORK
1. We admitted that we had become powerless over alcohol or the
substance we had abused (the alcoholic or the substance abuser) and
that our lives were unmanageable.
2. Came to believe that through Jesus Christ we could be restored to
right relationship with God the Father, and subsequent sanity and
stability in our lives.
3. Made the decision to turn from the things of the past and invite
Jesus to be Lord and manager of our lives.
4. Made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves.
5. Admitted to God, ourselves, and another human being the exact nature
of our wrongs.
6. Were entirely ready to have God remove all of our character defects.
7. Humbly asked Him to remove our shortcomings and to forgive us -
believing He would remove them - and receiving His forgiveness.
8. Made a list of all the people we had harmed and became willing to
make amends to them all.
9. Made direct amends to such people, wherever possible, except when to
do so would injure them or others.
10. Continued to take personal inventory and when we were wrong, promptly
admitted it.
11. Sought thru prayer and meditation on God's word to increase our
fellowship with Him, praying continually for the knowledge of His
will for us and the power of His might to accomplish it.
12. Having been spiritually restored and set free from "the sin which
does so easily beset us", we attempt to share this freedom and the
One who has freed us with those who still suffer, and practice the
Lord's principles in all our affairs.
BASIC PURPOSE - Our purpose in the discussion groups is to enter into the
process of becoming more like Christ and also to increase our fellowship
with God. We do this by becoming open and transparent with God,
ourselves and others; allowing the Lord to "brick by brick" remove the
walls of rejection, hurt, mistrust, unforgiveness and anger that have
separated us, not only from God, but from ourselves and others as well.
Truly, God wants us whole, and when we put into practice the principles
set forth in these Steps, and open ourselves to God's word and the
interaction at the tables, God responds by healing us and restoring us
beyond our wildest imagination. "Eye hath not seen, nor ear heard,
neither have entered into the heart of man, the things which God hath
prepared for them that love him." (I Corinthians 2:9 KJV)
SUGGESTED FORMAT FOR AC BIBLE/STEP STUDY MEETINGS
(AC groups, like most other groups, will tend to take on the characteristics
of their leaders and/or the denomination that is most heavily represented.
The following suggested format will, we hope, help to facilitate God's
purpose for us, and also maintain the non-denominational posture that is so
necessary for us.)
PRAYER - Open the meeting with prayer asking God to open our hearts and minds
to receive His Word.
WELCOME - Greet members and guests, give a brief statement about AC and, if
desired, introduce any new persons.
MUSIC MINISTRY - While this is optional, a time of group singing and/or
sharing (vocally or instrumentally) by those who are musically gifted, can
serve to prepare us for what God wants to do in the meeting.
OPENING REMARKS - The group leader may share at this time, a scripture
reading, or whatever God has put on his heart concerning the particular Step
to be discussed.
TESTIMONIES OF ANSWERED PRAYER - Since God wants us to "give Him the glory",
members (2 or 3) should be encouraged to share briefly how God is answering
prayer in their lives.
ANNOUNCEMENTS - Announce other activities, groups, retreats and special
functions. A collection may also be taken during this time.
BREAK FROM ASSEMBLY - This point provides a good opportunity for a short
break before reassembling at the individual tables.
- TABLE DISCUSSION -
(Ideally, tables will be made up of either substance abusers or family
members. However, it may be necessary to have mixed tables until such time
as the group is large enough to provide tables for both. Because of the
different nature of the problems in each group, we recommend that individual
tables be established as soon as possible.
PRAYER - Each table should start with prayer asking for God's direction.
STEP MATERIAL - The table leader can begin by reading (or having someone
read) the designated Step together with the related statements, and then
commenting and/or asking for comments from the table.
SCRIPTURE READING - The scriptures may then be read completely through aloud
in order to get an overview of what God is saying about the Step. (This
reading through of all the scriptures is optional.)
SCRIPTURE QUESTIONS - The table leader now can ask each person to read a
scripture after which, he may ask any or all of the questions pertaining to
it. The application of the Steps in our lives is of primary importance and
the scriptures selected to discuss are ones in which God will confirm that
importance to us.
Participation - Each person should be encouraged (not forced) to participate
by either commenting on the scriptures, sharing to what extent they have been
able (or unable) to apply the Step in their lives, and to ask questions. The
tables are not intended to be pulpits for table leaders but, a means by which
we can interact together using God's Word.
PROBLEM SHARING - The tables arc intended to provide a "safeplace" for those
attending. One of the requirements for a "safe place" is confidentiality,
what is said at the tables must remain at the tables. This is simply
complying with the commandment, "Love one another". When someone has a need
to share a burden or a part of their life, as long as it doesn't monopolize
the meeting, we should encourage it. Many times, after a person has shared
a burden, right then is the time for prayer. We have the option of prayer
and we should use it. Problems too personal in nature should however, be
deferred to private discussion and/or prayer after the table is dismissed.
CLOSING PRAYER - At a regularly appointed time the tables will be dismissed.
Closing prayer may be held at the tables and/or after the members have
reassembled in the full group.
- TIPS FOR TABLE LEADERS -
DIFFERENCES OF OPINION - From time to time differences of opinion concerning
scriptures may arise. Should dissension develop at the table, stop
immediately and pray together for unity. If it still continues, read aloud
from the Word until it passes. These are the weapons God has given us, let's
make use of them.
CONTROVERSIAL SUBJECTS - Subjects should be avoided that tend to be
controversial and/or have strong denominational emphasis. Even though they
may be scripturally founded, they can be divisive at denominationally mixed
tables. The table leaders should always be alert to the surfacing of these
type subjects and gently lead the discussion back to the step and .he
scriptures. Jesus himself was controversial, but He tells us not to "engage
in foolish arguments over words".
SALVATION - Finally, remember our purpose is to encourage others to turn
their lives and their wills over to Jesus Christ, so that as they become more
like Him they will be healed and restored. If there is any question that
someone at the table has not yet received Christ, they should be given the
opportunity to do so. The Word tells us that "Now is the time of salvation".
- FINAL STATEMENT -
The preceding suggestions have been furnished simply as a basic framework,
within which, a discussion group can function. We realize that no two groups
will operate the same, and it's our prayer that, as the individual groups are
established, that the Holy Spirit will provide the ultimate guidance and
direction needed.
SPONSORSHIP
In AC we have the opportunity to become involved in one of the most basic of
God's ministries, namely the "ministry of encouragement". One way we do this
is by sponsoring new persons who may (or may not) also be new Christians.
This consists of praying for them,.seeing they get to meetings, encouraging
them to read the Word, maintaining phone contact with them, and just being
"available" for them in general, until such time, as they are able to
participate meaningfully themselves. It does not mean becoming spiritually
and/or financially responsible for that person.
There are many who (like the paralyzed man that was lowered, by his friends,
through the opening in the roof to be healed by Jesus) need to be encouraged
and loved to the point where they are able to turn to Jesus. This is a world
filled with hurting people and we may be the only "Jesus" they ever see.
Let's reach out; let's make our lives count.
STEP 1 - WE ADMITTED THAT WE HAD BECOME POWERLESS OVER ALCOHOL OR THE
SUBSTANCE WE HAD ABUSED (ALCOHOLIC OR THE SUBSTANCE ABUSER) AND
THAT OUR LIVES WERE UNMANAGEABLE.
This Step states that the substance abuser is not only powerless over the
substance he has abused, but (left to himself) he is not capable of managing
his own life. The truth is, that no one is capable of managing their own
life without God. The following scriptures will show us that without God to
manage our lives, we can never obtain any real measure of peace or happiness.
GALATIANS 5:19-23 --
1. What is a definition of the "sinful nature"?
2. What are the differences between "acts" and "fruit"? Do both
proceed from the heart of man? (Mark 7:21)
3. When we depend on ourselves, which do we manifest, the "acts" of
the sinful nature or the "fruit" of the Spirit?
GENESIS 4:7 --
1. If I know the right thing to do and don't do it, who is to
blame?
2. How does sin gain control in our lives? Give an example.
3. Have we been successful at mastering sin by ourselves?
ROMANS 3:10 & 23 --
1. What is the meaning of "righteousness"?
2. Can we achieve "righteousness" on our own?
3. Are we all equally guilty? Can we all be equally righteous?
JAMES 2:10 --
1. Have you ever tried to be really good? How long did it last?
2. If what this scripture says is true, who can possibly make it?
PROVERBS 14:12 ---
1. What do you think is "the way that seems right to a man"?
2. Is "the way that seems right to a man" the same as "doing our own
thing"?
3. Is this scripture saying that we aren't able to manage our
own lives?
2 CORINTHIANS 1:9 --
1. Did you every experience guilt and remorse when you were drinking?
2. Have we felt the "sentence of death" in our hearts? How is this
related to being powerless?
ROMANS 6:23 --
1. Substitute "doing my own thing" for the word "sin"; is this a true
statement?
2. How do the words "wages" and "gift" differ?
3. what is the penalty for sin? How can we escape it?
JOHN 8:34-36 --
1. What do you think being a "slave to sin" means?
2. Can we be "set free" and be "slaves" at the same time?
3. Am I still a slave to sin?
ROMANS 7:5 & 6 --
1. What were we controlled by? What should we be controlled by? Are
all people controlled by something?
2. How are we released from the law? How permanent is it?
ROMANS 7:18-20 --
1. Are we still trying to be good? Is its possible?
2. Do you desire to do what is right? If so, can you carry it out?
3. Substitute "compulsion to do it my way" for the word "sin"; is this
a true statement?
ROMANS 7:24 & 25 --
1. Can we as Christians still be in this place sometimes?
2. Is it easy to serve two masters? Can Jesus rescue us from
this dilemma?
3. What is our only hope?
ROMANS 8:1 & 2 --
1. If there is "no condemnation", why do we still sometimes
feel condemned?
2. What does God promise will happen after we invite Jesus to be Lord
of our lives?
3. How can I keep on condemning myself if Christ has set me
free?
ROMANS 8:9 & 10 --
1. Since we are not controlled by the sinful nature when Jesus is Lord
of our lives, what are we controlled by?
2. If I am not controlled by the sinful nature, why do I still have
habits that I can't master?
1 CORINTHIANS 10:13 & 14 --
1. Does the Lord tempt us? What is the difference between "tempting"
and "testing"?
2. Should we panic when temptation comes? Should we condemn ourselves?
Should we rely on God and his word?
3. When the temptation to drink or use drugs comes at us, what does
God promise he will do for us?
1 PETER 5:6 & 7 --
1. When worry and anxiety come upon us, what should we do to be lifted
up, and why?
2. How do we humble ourselves before God?
3. Is it up to us to humble ourselves?
4. What does the scripture mean "in due time"?
PROVERBS 3:5-8 --
1. How often should we turn to the Lord? Why shouldn't we lean on "our
own understanding"?
2. What are God's conditions for health and recovery?
"ONCE I WAS BLIND BUT NOW I SEE!"
STEP 1 - WE ADMITTED THAT WE HAD BECOME POWERLESS OVER ALCOHOL OR THE
SUBSTANCE WE HAD ABUSED (ALCOHOLIC OR THE SUBSTANCE ABUSER) AND THAT
OUR LIVES WERE UNMANAGEABLE.
(Why should you be beaten anymore? Why do you persist in rebellion? Your
whole head is injured, your whole heart afflicted. From the soul of your
foot to the top of your head there is no soundness - only wounds and welts
and open sores, not cleansed or bandaged or soothed with oil. -
Isaiah 1:5 & 6)
Galatians 5:19-23 - The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual
immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred,
discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambitions, dissensions, factions and
envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you as I did before, that
those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit
of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness,
faithfulness, gentleness and self-control. Against such things there is no
law.
Genesis 4:7 - "If you do what is right, will you not be accepted? But if you
do not do what is right, sin is crouching at your door; it desires to have
you, but you must master it."
Romans 3:10 & 23 - As it is written: "There is none righteous, not even one.
For all have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God.
James 2:10 - For whoever keeps the whole law and yet stumbles at just one
point is guilty of breaking all of it.
Proverbs 14:12 - There is a way that seems right to a.man, but in the end it
leads to death.
2 Corinthians 1:9 - Indeed in our hearts we felt the sentence of death. But
this happened that we might not rely on ourselves but on God who raises the
dead.
Romans 6:23 - For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal
life in Christ Jesus our Lord.
John 8:34-36 - Jesus replied "I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a
slave to sin." Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son
belongs to it forever. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.
Romans 7:5 & 6 - For when we were controlled by the sinful nature, the sinful
passions aroused by the law were at work in our bodies, so that we bore fruit
for death. But now by dying to what once bound us, we have been released
from the law so that we may serve in the new way of the Spirit, and not in
the old way of the written code.
Romans 7:18-20 - I know that nothing good lives in me, that is, in my sinful
nature. For I have the desire to do what is good, but I can not carry it
out. For what I do is not the good I want to do; no, the evil I do not want
to do - this I keep on doing. Now if I do what I do not want to, it is no
longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.
Romans 7:24 & 25 - What a wretched man am I! Who will rescue me from this
body of death? Thanks be to God - through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then,
I myself in my mind am a slave to God's law, but in my sinful nature a slave
to the law of sin.
Romans 8:1 & 2 - Therefore there is now no condemnation for those who are in
Christ Jesus, because through Christ Jesus the law of the Spirit of life set
me free from the law of sin and death.
Romans 8:9 & 10 - You however are not controlled by the sinful nature but by
the Spirit, if the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have
the Spirit of Christ, he does not belong to Christ. But if Christ is in you,
your body is dead because of sin, yet your spirit is alive because of
righteousness.
1 Corinthians 10:13 & 14 - No temptation has seized you except what is common
to man. And God is faithful: he will not let you be tempted beyond what you
can bear. But when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that
you can stand up under it.
1 Peter 5:6 & 7 - Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that
he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he
cares for you.
Proverbs 3:5-8 - Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your
own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your
paths straight. Do not be wise in your own eyes; fear the Lord and shun
evil. This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones.
STEP 2 - CAME TO BELIEVE THAT THROUGH JESUS CHRIST WE COULD BE RESTORED TO
RIGHT RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD THE FATHER, AND SUBSEQUENT SANITY AND
STABILITY IN OUR LIVES.
This Step talks about coming to believe that we could have a right
relationship with God the Father. We look at the people we know who have
this relationship with God and their lives seem to be so much happier than
the lives of those who do not. The question that we may be asking ourselves
is, "Will God really work in my life if I do believe"? The answer is
definitely yes and that, He is only waiting for us to give Him the
opportunity.
This study will help us to better understand and believe that Jesus has
provided us a way to have this relationship with God together with all the
benefits that result from it.
ISAIAH 1:18-20 --
1. What happens when we are obedient to the Lord? What happens when we
rebel?
2. What must we do to be obedient?
3. Do you believe that we can be "white as snow"?
REVELATION 3:20 --
1. When did God "knock" on the door of your life?
2. Where is the Lord always standing?
3. What is God's part in this? What is our part?
ROMANS 10:13 ---
1. What does "call on the name" mean to you?
2. Does God ever reject anyone?
ROMANS 10:1-4 --
1. What does it mean, "they are zealous for God, but their zeal is not
based on knowledge"? Give an example.
2. How does righteousness come from God? How do we try to establish
our own righteousness?
JOHN 14:6 ---
1. Does this mean that "no one" can know the Father except
through Jesus?
2. What is the only way to God the Father?
JOHN 3:3-6
1. What does the statement "born again" mean to you?
2. How do we become "born again"?
JOHN 7:37-39
1. What does water represent in this scripture? How do we
receive it?
2. Why must we believe? Can we believe without the Spirit?
3. If we drink of the water that Jesus gives, will others be able to
drink from the waters that flow from us?
JOHN 11:25 & 26 --
1. What do these promises mean to you, and how do we get them?
2. Who is Jesus the "resurrection and the life" for?
3. Explain what "believes in me" means to you.
JOHN 6:40
1. What is the "Father's will" according to this scripture?
2. Have we "looked to Jesus and believed" today"?
3. How often have we prayed "Thy kingdom come, they will be done" and
still rejected Jesus.
JOHN 5:37-40 --
1. How can we know about God and who does the scripture testify about?
2. Does this mean that even though we study God's word, his word does
not "dwell in us" if we reject Jesus?
JOHN 10:37-39 --
1. How do we know that Jesus has come from the Father?
2. Have you ever seen a miracle done by Jesus? Describe it.
3. When do we begin to understand?
2 CORINTHIANS 4:13 & 14
1. What does the scripture promise will happen when we "believe"?
2. What does "that same spirit of faith" mean?
ROMANS 8:11
1. How do we receive the "Spirit of God"? What will this Spirit do
for us?
2. Does the Spirit "give life to our mortal bodies" now or later? Is
it a process?
JOHN 20:29-31 --
1. Why did John write this Gospel? Is there enough evidence to
believe that Jesus "is the only way"?
2. Is it possible for us to "see" and "believe" in Jesus through the
word?
JOHN 17:20-23
1. Name the different things that Jesus is praying for in these
scriptures.
2. Has Jesus given us the same "glory" that he gave the Disciples?
Why?
3. When will the world believe? Explain.
GOD'S PROMISES ARE "TRUE"!
STEP 2 - CAME TO BELIEVE THAT THROUGH JESUS CHRIST WE COULD BE RESTORED TO
RIGHT RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD THE FATHER, AND SUBSEQUENT SANITY AND
STABILITY IN OUR LIVES.
Isaiah 1:18-20 - "Come now, let us reason together", says the Lord. "Though
your sins are like scarlet, they shall be white as snow; though they are red
as crimson, they shall be like wool. If you are willing and obedient, you
will eat from the best of the land; but if you rebel, you will be devoured
by the sword". For the mouth of the Lord has spoken.
Revelation 3:20 - Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears
my voice and opens the door, I will go in and eat with him, and he with me.
Romans 10:13 - For "everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be
saved".
Romans 10:1-4 - Brothers, my hearts desire and prayer to God for the
Israelites is that they may be saved. For I can testify about them that they
are zealous for God, but their zeal is not based on knowledge. Since they
do not know the righteousness that comes from God and sought to establish
their own, they did not submit to God's righteousness. Christ is the end of
the law so that there may be righteousness for everyone who believes.
John 14:6 - Jesus answered "I am the way and the truth and the life. No one
comes to the Father except through me."
John 3:3-6 - Jesus declared, "I tell you the truth, unless a man is born
again, he cannot see the kingdom of God." "How can a man be born when he is
old?" Nicodemus asked. "Surely he cannot enter a second time into his
mother's womb to be born!" Jesus answered, "I tell you the truth, unless a
man is born of water and the Spirit, he cannot enter the kingdom of God.
Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit".
John 7:37-39 - On the last and greatest day of the Feast, Jesus stood and
said in a loud voice, "If a man is thirsty, let him come to me and drink.
Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of living water
will flow from within him". By this he meant the Spirit, whom those who
believed in him were later to receive. Up to that time the Spirit had not
been given, since Jesus had not yet been glorified.
John 11:25 & 26 - Jesus said to her, "I am the resurrection and the life.
He who believes in me will live, even though he dies, and whoever lives and
believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?"
John 6:40 - For my Father's will is that everyone who looks to the Son and
believes in him shall have eternal life.
John 5:37-40 - "And the Father who sent me has himself testified concerning
me. You have never heard his voice nor seen his form, nor does his word
dwell in you, for you do not believe the one he sent. You diligently study
the Scriptures because you think that by them you possess eternal life.
These are the Scriptures that testify about me, yet you refuse to come to me
to have life."
John 10:37-39 - Do not believe me unless I do what the Father does. But if
I do it, even though you do not believe me, believe the miracles, that you
may learn and understand that the Father is in me, and I in the Father.
Again they tried to seize him, but he escaped their grasp.
2 Corinthians 4:13 & 14 - It is written: "I believed; therefore I have
spoken." With that same spirit of faith we also believe and therefore speak,
because we know that the one who raised the Lord Jesus Christ from the dead
will also raise us with Jesus and present us with you in his presence.
Romans 8:11 - And if the Spirit of him that raised Jesus from the dead is
living in you, he who raised Christ from the dead will also give life to your
mortal bodies through his Spirit who lives in you.
John 20:29-31 - Then Jesus told him, "Because you have seen me, you have
believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed." Jesus
did many other miraculous signs in the presence of his disciples, which are
not recorded in this book. But these are written that you may believe that
Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life
in his name.
John 17:20-23 - My prayer is not for them (the disciples) alone. I pray also
for those who will believe in me through their message, that all of them may
be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in
us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. I have given them
the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one. I in them
and you in me. May they be brought to complete unity to let the world know
that you have sent me and have loved them even as you have loved me.
STEP 3 - MADE THE DECISION TO TURN FROM THE THINGS OF THE PASTAND INVITE
JESUS TO BE LORD AND MANAGER OF OUR LIVES.
In Step 1 we admitted that our lives were unmanageable. In Step 2 we came
to believe that Jesus was God incarnate. Now it is time to do something
about it, and that is, to turn our lives and our wills over to Him.
If you are tired of playing God, why don't you let the One who created you
become Lord of your life. Ask Him to forgive you of your sins and come in
and be the Lord and manager of your life. Ask Jesus to help you to live to
do His will instead of yours from this day forward.
MATTHEW 11:28-30 --
1. First Jesus gives us "rest", then we find "rest". Explain.
2. Is there anything that we can not bring to the Lord and trust him
with it?
PROVERBS 16:3 --
1. Are we willing to "go all the way" with the Lord?
2. Give an example of a time when you have done this.
3. What are some of the areas in our lives that we need Jesus to
manage?
2 CORINTHIANS 6:2 --
1. Does this concept still apply today? Is this still the time of his
favor?
2. When is the best time to take Step 3?
3. Why do some of us have difficulty with the "now is the time"
concept?
JOHN 3:16-18 ---
1. Why did Jesus come into the world and what is our condition if we
do not accept him?
2. Is this scripture saying, "that without Jesus I am condemned
already"?
JOHN 3:36 --
1. What will happen to those who believe in Jesus? What happens to
those who do not believe in him?
2. Is this scripture saying, "that without Jesus, God's wrath is
already on us"?
ROMANS 10:9 & 10 --
1. What does a person do to "get saved"?
2. Why is it important to confess with our mouths? Give an example.
3. Have our lives changed as a result of doing this and believing it?
1 JOHN 4:15-17 --
1. How can we have God living in us? What is his command for us?
2. What does it mean "we know and rely on the love God has for us"?
3. Am I walking in God's love today? Am I confident of his perfect
love?
1 JOHN 5:4 & 5 --
1. What does it mean to "overcome the world"?
2. How can we overcome the world? Who is it that overcomes the world?
JOHN 10:17 & 18 --
1. What does it mean to "lay down our life"?
2. How does this scripture relate to Step 3?
JOHN 12:24 --
1. Why does death have to occur before new life can merge?
2. Is this principle true in our lives?
3. What does this scripture mean to you?
1 CORINTHIANS 15:22 --
1. Must the "Adam" in us die in order for the "Christ" in us to rise?
2. We are all born "into the death of Adam", have we now been born
"into the life of Christ"?
3. Explain what this means to you.
2 CORINTHIANS 5:15-19 --
1. How do we become new creations?
2. What does "not regarding others from a worldly point of view" have
to do with "the ministry of reconciliation"?
3. Explain why we should no longer live for ourselves?
ROMANS 5:17 --
1. What is God's "abundant provision" for us? How do we receive it?
2. Can we receive "rightstanding with God" in any other way?
3. Have you received the "gift of righteousness"? Are you "reigning
in life" through Jesus?
PHILIPPIANS 3:7-9 --
1. What does "consider everything a loss compared to knowing Christ"
mean to you?
2. Where should Christ be in our lives in relation to the other things
in our lives?
ROMANS 6:12-14
1. Does Jesus free us from control of the flesh so that we can exercise
free choice?
2. What can we do to assure that we will never again be instruments of
wickedness?
3. These scriptures sum up Step 3. Have we really made this decision?
1 PETER 3:16
1. What does it mean to be self-controlled? Does this have anything
to do with obedience?
2. How do we prepare our minds for action? What is the action we take?
3. Is it our hearts desire to "be holy"? Is "holiness" God's will for
us?
IS JESUS CHRIST LORD OF YOUR LIFE? - IF NOT - WHY NOT?
Lord Jesus, I believe that you died and rose so that I might live. And I
invite you, this day, to come into my heart as Lord and Savior of my life -
Amen.
STEP 3 - MADE THE DECISION TO TURN FROM THE THINGS OF THE PAST AND INVITE
JESUS TO BE LORD AND MANAGER OF OUR LIVES.
COME AND RECEIVE - NOW!
Matthew 11:28-30 - Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will
give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and
humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy
and my burden is light.
Proverbs 16:3 - Commit to the Lord whatever you do, and your plans will
succeed.
2 Corinthians 6:2 - For he says, "In the time of my favor I heard you, and
in the day of salvation I helped you." I tell you, now is the time of God's
favor, now is the time of salvation.
WHAT IS THE ALTERNATIVE?
John 3:16-18 - For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son,
that whoever believes in him shall not perish, but have eternal life. For
God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the
world through him. Whoever believes in him is not condemned, but whoever
does not believe stands condemned already because he has not believed in the
name of God's one and only Son.
John 3:36 - Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects
the Son will not see life, for God's wrath remains on him.
WHAT 00 WE DO?
Romans 10:9 & 10 - That if you confess with your mouth, "Jesus is Lord," and
believe in your heart God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For
it is with your heart that you believe and are justified, and it is with your
mouth that you confess and are saved.
WHAT HAPPENS NOW?
1 John 4:15-17 - If anyone acknowledges that Jesus is the Son of God, God
lives in him and he in God. And so we know and rely on the love God has for
us. God is love. Whoever lives in love lives in God, and God in him. Love
is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of
judgement, because in this world we are like him.
1 John 5:4 & 5 - For everyone born of God has overcome the world. This is
the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith. Who is it that
overcomes the world? Only he who believes that Jesus is the Son of God.
DYING AND LIVING
John 10:17 & 18 - The reason my Father loves me is that I lay down my life -
only to take it up again. No one takes it from me, but I lay it down of my
own accord. I have authority to lay it down and authority to take it up
again. This command I received from my Father.
John 12:24 - I tell you the truth, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the
ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces
many seeds.
1 Corinthians 15:22 - For as in Adam all die, so in Christ all will be made
alive.
2 Corinthians 5:15-19 - And he died for all, that those who live should no
longer live for themselves but for him who died for them and was raised
again. So from now on we regard no one from a worldly point of view. Though
we once regarded Christ in this way, we do so no longer. Therefore, if
anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation, the old has gone, the new has
come. All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself through Christ and
gave us the ministry of reconciliation.
THE GIFT OF RIGHTEOUSNESS
2 Corinthians 5:20 & 21 - We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though
God were making his appeal through us. We implore you on Christ's behalf:
Be reconciled to God. God made him who knew no sin to be sin for us, so that
in him we might become the righteousness of God.
Romans 5:17 - For if, by the trespass of the one man, death reigned through
that one man, how much more will those who receive God's abundant provision
of grace and of the gift of righteousness reign in life through the one man,
Jesus Christ.
Philippians 3:7-9 - But whatever was to my profit I now consider loss for the
sake of Christ. What is more, I consider everything a loss compared to the
surpassing greatness of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord, for whose sake I have
lost all things. I consider them rubbish, that I may gain Christ and be
found in him, not having a righteousness of my own that comes from the law,
but that which is through faith in Christ - the righteousness that comes from
God and is by faith.
MAKE HIM LORD
Romans 6:12-14 - Therefore do not let sin reign in your mortal body so that
you obey its evil desires. Do not offer the parts of your body to sin, as
instruments of wickedness, but rather offer yourselves to God, as those who
have been brought from death to life; and.offer the parts of your body to him
as instruments of righteousness. For sin shall not be your master, because
you are not under law but under grace.
1 Peter 1:13-16 - Therefore, prepare your minds for action; be self-
controlled; set your hope fully on the grace to be given you when Jesus
Christ is revealed. As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires
you had when you lived in ignorance. But just as he who called you is holy,
so be holy in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy."
STEP 4 - MADE A SEARCHING AND FEARLESS MORAL INVENTORY OF OURSELVES.
Once we have accepted Jesus as the Lord and manager of our lives, He gives
us the desire to start housecleaning. (God catches His fish, then He cleans
them.) In Step 4 the process of becoming more of what He wants us to become
begins by taking a fearless personal inventory of where we have morally
fallen short in our lives.
We know that forgiveness has been provided for us at the cross and we are not
suggesting that salvation must be "earned", but the inventory is necessary
if we are to "walk in freedom" and become effective for the Lord. This
cannot happen if we remain "slaves" to the sin in our lives. The first order
of business is to identify what these sins have been and, to what extent, if
any, that they still exist.
One method of taking this inventory, that we have found to be helpful, is to
write it down, but regardless of how you choose to do it, it needs to be
done. Once it is finished, Steps 5, 6 and 7 show us God's plan for dealing
with it.
PSALM 139:23 & 24 --
1. Who does the Psalmist turn to in order to take an
inventory-
2. Do you think we can find anything in our inventory that God doesn't
reveal to us?
EPHESIANS 4:17-5:21 --
1. What are the three requirements stated in verses 4:22-24?
2. Is verse 5:11 saying that we should take an inventory?
GALATIANS 5:13-18 --
1. How are we to know when we are "indulging the sinful nature"
without taking an inventory?
2. What happens to the sinful nature when we "live by the
Spirit"?
MARK 7:20-23 --
1. What are the things that make a person unclean? How do we get rid
of them?
2. If we have a change of heart, will sin be eliminated from
our lives?
1 JOHN 1:8 --
1. Why would a person claim to be without sin?
2. Is it still possible as Christians to deceive ourselves?
EZEKIEL 36:26,27 & 31 --
1. Note the pronouns "I" and "you". What does God say he will do?
What does he say we are to do?
2. If we are "new creatures in Christ", why does God say we are to
remember our "evil ways and wicked deeds"?
2 CORINTHIANS 7:10 --
1. What is the difference between "Godly sorrow" and "worldly
sorrow"?
2. Does God want us to have worldly sorrow? Is it in God's
plan?
ROMANS 13:11-14 -
1. How can taking Step 4 help to "wake us from our slumber"?
2. What is it that we are to "put aside"? What is it that we are to
"put on"?
ROMANS 12:1-3 --
1. Name three practical ways we can "offer ourselves as living
sacrifices".
2. What does the scripture "Don't think of yourself more highly than
you ought" means to you?
3. Now that we have accepted the Lord, how should we think of
ourselves? How can this be accomplished?
JOHN 8:34-36
1. How do we become slaves to sin? How can we be set free?
2. Are there any areas in our lives that we have not yet been set free
from?
ROMANS 6:16 --
1. Does this scripture apply to Christians?
2. Does this scripture prompt us to take an inventory? If so, why?
ROMANS 8:5-9 --
1. What is the difference between those who have their "minds set" on
the Spirit and those who have their "minds set" on the sinful
nature?
2. If.the Spirit of God lives in us, why do we still sometimes follow
after the sinful nature?
2 CORINTHIANS 6:14-7:1 ---
1. How many sets of opposites does Paul list in these scriptures?
What is the point he is making?
2. Which of these scriptures deal with taking an inventory?
1 JOHN 3:18-24 --
1. How does the word tell us to love? How do we know if we "belong
to the truth"?
2. Why should it be important to us that "our hearts" do not condemn
us"?
PSALM 19:14
1. Do you think it"s "pleasing in God's sight" when we take an
inventory?
2. If we have Jesus in our hearts, what should the words of our mouths
be?
STEP 4 - MADE A SEARCHING AND FEARLESS MORAL INVENTORY OF OURSELVES.
Psalm 139:23 & 24 - Search me, 0 God, and know my heart; test me and know my
anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in
the way everlasting.
Read Ephesians 4:17 thru 5:21 --- Discuss.
Galatians 5:13-18 - You, my brothers, were called to be free. But do not use
your freedom to indulge the sinful nature; rather, serve one another in love.
The entire law is summed up in a single command: "Love your neighbor as
yourself." If you keep on biting and devouring each other, watch out or you
will be destroyed by each other. So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will
not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. For the sinful nature desires
what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the sinful
nature. They are in conflict with each other, so that you do not do what you
want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under law.
Mark 7:20-23 - Jesus went on: "What comes out of a man is what makes him
'unclean'. For from within, out of men's hearts, come evil thoughts, sexual
immorality, theft, murder, adultery, greed, malice, deceit, lewdness, envy,
slander, arrogance and folly. All these evils come from inside and make a
man 'unclean.'"
1 John 1:8 - If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the
truth is not in us.
Ezekiel 36:26,27 & 31 - I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit in
you; I will remove from you your heart of stone and give you a heart of
flesh. And I will put my Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees and
be careful to keep my laws. Then you will remember your evil ways and wicked
deeds, and you will loathe yourselves for your sins and detestable practices.
2 Corinthians 7:10 - Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation
and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death.
Romans 13:11-14 - And do this, understanding the present time. The hour has
come for you to wake up from your slumber, because our salvation is nearer
now than when we first believed. The night is nearly over; the day is almost
here. So let us put aside the deeds of darkness and put on the armor of
light. Let us behave decently, as in the daytime, not in orgies and
drunkenness, not in sexual immorality and debauchery, not in dissension and
jealousy. Rather clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not
think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.
Romans 12:1-3 - Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to
offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God - which is
your spiritual worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this
world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be
able to test and approve what God's will is - his good, pleasing and perfect
will. For by the grace given me I say to everyone of you: Do not think of
yourself more highly than you ought, but rather think of yourself with sober
judgement, in accordance with the measure of faith God has given you.
John 8:34-36 - Jesus replied, "I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a
slave to sin. Now a slave has no permanent place in the family, but a son
belongs to it forever. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.
Romans 6:16 - Don't you know that when you offer yourselves to someone to
obey him as slaves, you are slaves to the one whom you obey - whether you are
slaves to sin, which leads to death, or to obedience, which leads to
righteousness?
Romans 8:5-9 - Those who live according to the sinful nature have their minds
set on what that nature desires; but those who live in accordance with the
Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. The mind of sinful
man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace,
because the sinful mind is hostile to God. It does not submit to God's law,
nor can it do so. Those controlled by the sinful nature cannot please God.
You, however, are controlled not by the sinful nature but by the Spirit, if
the Spirit of God lives in you. And if anyone does not have the Spirit of
Christ, he does not belong to Christ.
2 Corinthians 6:14-7:1 - Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what
do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light
have with darkness? What harmony is there between Christ and Belial? What
does a believer have in common with an unbeliever? What agreement is there
between the temple of God and idols? For we are the temple of the living
God. As God has said: "I will live with them and walk among them, and I
will be their God, and they will be my people." "Therefore come out from them
and be separate, says the Lord. Touch no unclean thing, and I will receive
you." "I will be a Father to you, and you will be my sons and daughters, says
the Lord Almighty." Since we have these promises, dear friends, let us purify
ourselves from everything that contaminates body and spirit, perfecting
holiness out of reverence for God.
1 John 3:18-24 - Dear Children, let us not love with words or tongue but with
actions and in truth. This then is how we know that we belong to the truth,
and how we set out hearts at rest in his presence whenever our hearts condemn
us. For God is greater than our hearts, and he knows everything. Dear
friends, if our hearts do not condemn us, we have confidence before God and
receive from him anything we ask, because we obey his commands and do what
pleases him. And this is his command: to believe in the name of his Son,
Jesus Christ, and to love one another as he commanded us. Those who obey his
commands live in him, and he in them. And this is now we know that he lives
in us: We know it by the Spirit he gave us.
Psalm 19:14 - May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be
pleasing in your sight, 0 Lord my rock and redeemer.
STEP 5 - ADMITTED TO OURSELVES, AND ANOTHER HUMAN BEING THE EXACT NATURE OF
OUR WRONGS.
This Step is a "freedom" step. When we confess (admit) our sins to God,
ourselves and someone else we have initiated the process that will result in
our no longer carrying that guilt or burden with us.
Step 5 is also a healing step. We find that, many times, the hidden things
in our lives are like tumors or growths that must be removed. James 5:16
tells us to "confess our sins to one another and pray for one another so that
we may be healed."
PSALM 32:1-5 --
1. What happens to us when we don't "acknowledge" and "confess"?
2. What relationship is there between misery and unconfessed sin? Give
an example.
PROVERBS 28:13 --
1. What do the words "confess and renounce" mean to you?
2. Who is the hardest one to confess our wrongs to; God, ourselves, or
another?
3. What does the scripture mean when it says "not prospering"?
LUKE 12:2 & 3 --
1. Why do we, sometimes, refuse to look at the very things within us
that Jesus came to set us free from?
2. Can we also believe that there is "nothing concealed or hidden" that
God will not reveal to us if we ask?
PROVERBS 20:9 --
1. Is it possible for anyone to make this statement? If not, why not?
2. Is this scripture telling us that we need to "get honest with
ourselves"?
JOHN 3:19-21 --
1. Why is it that men love the darkness and hate the light? How do we
come into the light?
2. What does "whoever lives by the truth comes into the light" have to
do with Step 5?
3. Have you ever been ashamed because of sin? Have you ever been
elated because of forgiveness? Give an example of each.
1 JOHN 1:8-10 --
1. There are three "if we" statements, what is the end result of each
one?
2. What does this scripture say is "our part"? What is "God's part"?
3. If we refuse to take Step 5, what is our "unconfession" saying?
1 JOHN 2:1 & 2
1. Assuming that we might sin again, what steps can we take to avoid
a particular sin in our lives?
2. If we do sin, what should we do? Who will defend us?
JAMES 5:16 --
1. Why are we directed to confess our sins to one another?
2. Does this scripture imply that, if we have sinned, we need to be
healed?
3. This is one of the great tools God has given us for becoming
transparent, have you "confessed and renounced" to another person?
STEP 5 - ADMITTED TO GOD, OURSELVES, AND ANOTHER HUMAN BEING
THE EXACT NATURE OF OUR WRONGS.
Psalm 32:1-5 - Blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins
are covered. Blessed is the man whose sin the Lord does not count against
him and in whose spirit is no deceit. When I kept silent, my bones wasted
away through my groaning all day long. For night and day your hand was heavy
upon me; my strength was sapped as in the heat of the summer. Then I
acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my iniquity. I said "I will
confess my transgressions to the Lord" and you forgave the guilt of my sin.
Proverbs 28:13 - He who conceals his sin does not prosper, but whoever
confesses and renounces them finds mercy.
Luke 12:2 & 3 - There is nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or
hidden that will not be made known. What you have said in the dark will be
heard in the daylight, and what you have whispered in the ear in the inner
rooms will be shouted from the housetops.
Proverbs 20:9 - Who can say, "I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and
without sin"?
John 3:19-21 - This is the verdict: Light has come into the world but men
loved darkness instead of light because their deeds were evil. Everyone who
does evil hates the light, and will not come into the light for fear that his
deeds will be exposed. But whoever lives by the truth comes into the light,
so that it may be seen plainly that what he has done has been done through
God.
1 John 1:8-10 - If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the
truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will
forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness. If we claim we
have not sinned, we make him out to be a liar and his word has no place in
our lives.
1 John 2:1 & 2 - My dear children I write this to you so that you will not
sin. But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks to the Father in our
defense - Jesus Christ, the Righteous One. He is the atoning sacrifice for
our sins, and not only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.
James 5:16 - Therefore confess your sins to one another and pray for each
other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous man is powerful
and effective.
STEP 6 - WERE ENTIRELY READY TO HAVE GOD REMOVE ALL THESE DEFECTS OF
CHARACTER - (Repented - Became Willing to Change)
There is a certain amount of readiness that will have been evidenced in our
lives when we reach this Step. However, to be "entirely ready" is a work of
the heart and can only be done by God; Ezekiel 36:27 says, "I will put my
Spirit in you and move you to follow my decrees."
Once we have "made the decision to turn from the things of the past", have
"examined ourselves" and have "confessed our sins"; God is committed to pro-
viding us with the "entire readiness" spoken of in this Step.
GALATIANS 1:3-5 --
1. For what purpose did Jesus "give himself up"?
2. What does the Father will for us? How is it accomplished?
3. Do we tend to think more about God and his abilities or, about
ourselves and our shortcomings?
HEBREWS 8:10-12 --
1. Why does God "put his laws in our minds" and "write them on our
hearts"? (Jer. 17:10)
2. How does God write his laws on our hearts?
3. How does God promise to direct our lives? What does he do regarding
our sins?
ACTS 3:19 --
1. How does the word "repent" tie in with "were entirely ready"?
2. Do we believe that the Lord wants to refresh us, and that he is able
to do it?
JOHN 1:29 --
1. Why is Jesus referred to as "the Lamb of God"?
2. What did the Lamb come for?
EPHESIANS 1:7
1. What does "redemption through his blood" mean to you?
2. What does "blood" have to do with "redemption"? (Heb. 9:22)
3. What does this scripture mean to you?
1 JOHN 3:4-6
1. Will Jesus "take away" the things we are not willing to give over
to him?
2. Do we all continue to sin? If so, what does this scripture mean to
you?
1 JOHN 3:9 & 10
1. Does this mean that the children of God will become "entirely ready"
and that the children of the devil won't?
2. How do we know that we are "children of God"?
3. Give an example of how your ability to love your brothers has grown.
EPHESIANS 2:3-5
1. Does God automatically change our old desires or do we need to "turn
away" from them?
2. Can we identify ourselves as having been "objects of wrath"? How
were we saved?
3. As we release our defects to Christ, do we become more alive in him?
1 PETER 2:24 ---
1. Is there any sin, that we might harbor, that Jesus didn't bear on
the cross?
2. How do we receive the healing accomplished at the cross?
3. What are we personally to die to? What does his healing mean to
you?
ROMANS 12:1 & 2
1. How do we go about "offering our bodies as living sacrifices"?
2. What must we do in order to know what God's will is for us?
3. When we honestly take this Step, are we "offering our bodies as
living sacrifices"?
EPHESIANS 4:31 & 32 --
1. How does being "entirely ready to have God remove all these
defects of character" apply to these scriptures?
2. Are we "entirely ready" to not only have these defects removed,
but the "root causes" as well?
2 TIMOTHY 2:15
1. Do we have to be perfect to be "worthy" of God's approval?
2. Are we "doing our best" to apply the Steps and scriptures to our
lives?
HEBREWS 4:13-16
1. How is Christ able to appreciate the difficulties we encounter
"living according to" God's will and "turning away from" the
world?
2. Do we understand that, even though some areas in our lives still
need to be transformed, we can still approach the throne of grace
with confidence?
REMEMBER - IT "IS POSSIBLE" TO LIVE THE CHRISTIAN LIFE!
STEP 6 - WERE ENTIRELY READY TO HAVE GOD REMOVE ALL THESE DEFECTS OF
CHARACTER - (Repented - became Willing to Change)
Galatians 1:3-5 - Grace and Peace to you from God our Father and the Lord
Jesus Christ, who gave himself for our sins to rescue us from the present
evil age, according to the will of our God and Father, to whom be the glory
forever and ever. Amen.
Hebrews 8:10 & 12 - This is the covenant I will make with the house of Israel
after that time, declares the Lord. I will put my laws in their minds and
write them on their hearts. For I will forgive their wickedness and will
remember their sins no more.
Acts 3:19 - Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped
out, that the times of refreshing may come from the Lord.
John 1:29 - The next day John saw Jesus coming toward him and said "Look, the
Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world."
Ephesians 1:7 - In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness
of sins, in accordance with the riches of God's grace.
1 John 3:4-6 - Everyone who sins breaks the law; in fact, sin is lawlessness.
But you know that he appeared so that he might take away our sins. And in
him is no sin. No one who lives in him keeps on sinning. No one who
continues to sin has either seen him or known him.
1 John 3:9 & 10 - No one who is born of God will continue to sin, because
God's seed remains in him; he cannot go on sinning, because he has been born
of God. This is how we know who the children of God are and who the children
of the devil are; anyone who does not do what is right is not a child of God;
neither is anyone who does not love his brother.
Ephesians 2:3-5 - All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the
cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts. Like
the rest we were objects of wrath. But because of his great love for us, God
who is rich in mercy, made us alive with Christ even when we were dead in
transgressions - It is by grace you have been saved.
I Peter 2:24 - He himself, bore our sins in his body on the tree, so that we
might die to sins and live for righteousness; by his wounds you have been
healed. (Emotionally, Spiritually, and Physically)
Romans 12:1 & 2 - Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy,
to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God which is
your spiritual worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this
world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be
able to test and approve what God's will is - His good and pleasing and
perfect will.
Ephesians 4:31 & 32 - Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and
slander, along with every form of malice. Be kind and compassionate to one
another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ, God forgave you.
2 Timothy 2:15 - Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a
workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word
of truth.
Hebrews 4:13-16 - Nothing in all creation is hidden from God's sight.
Everything is uncovered and laid bare before the eyes of him to whom we must
give account. Therefore, since we have a great high priest who has gone
through the heavens, Jesus the Son of God, let us hold firmly to the faith
we profess. For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize
with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just
as we are - yet was without sin. Let us then approach the throne of grace
with confidence, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in
our time of need.
STEP 7 - HUMBLY ASKED HIM TO REMOVE ALL OUR SHORTCOMINGS AND TO FORGIVE US
BELIEVING AND RECEIVING.
In Step 3 we "made the decision to turn from the things of the past", we come
to a point now in Step 7 where that decision becomes a "reality". James 4:10
says, "Humble yourselves before the Lord, and He will lift you up." There are
times when we go to the Lord and ask Him to remove a particular sin and
nothing seems to happen. This may be because we have not yet given it over
to Him. We cannot ask God to remove our sin and to forgive us and keep right
on sinning. We must first humbly give it over to Him and turn away from
whatever it is; and then, should the temptation arise, we turn to the Lord
for strength to resist. Forgiveness of sins has been positional provided
(set in place) for us by Jesus at the cross. We now have the opportunity for
that forgiveness to become experiential (to know it in our hearts) by
appropriating and receiving it in those areas of our lives where God has
revealed to us, through the inventory Steps, that it is needed.
PSALM 41:4 --
1. Who have we sinned against?
2. If God already knows our thoughts, why do we have to ask?
3. Are we really ready to let God heal us?
PSALM 51:1-13 ---
1. Are we all sinners from birth?
2. Are we becoming transparent and honest with God about everything in
our lives?
PROVERBS 1:7 --
1. What is the "fear of the Lord"? (Jer. 32:39 & 40) Why do "fools
despise wisdom and discipline"?
2. What are we afraid of: God? Looking at ourselves? Wondering if
God will heal us? What others think? Satan? It goes on and on.
PROVERBS 15:33 --
1. If the fear of the Lord teaches a man wisdom, what teaches him
humility?
2. How does humility bring honor? What is honor?
3. Does humility come by confessing to our brothers and asking them to
pray that we be forgiven and healed?
PROVERBS 22:4 --
1. What will "humility and the fear of the Lord" bring us? Why do you
think this is true?
2. What is the meaning of "wealth" as it is used here?
3. Are we personally applying humility and the fear of the Lord in our
lives? Are we reaping the benefits?
MATTHEW 18:1-4 --
1. What hinders us from "becoming like little children"?
2. What does it mean to "humble ourselves as children"?
LUKE 18:10-14 --
1. What was uppermost in the minds of the Pharisee and the tax
collector as they prayed? Why was the tax collector justified?
2. What will keep us from becoming Pharisees as we follow after the
Lord?
3. Give an example of when you have exalted yourself, and also, when
you have humbled yourself.
1 PETER 5:6 & 7 --
1. How do we humble ourselves? What are we to do with anxiety?
2. Can we be "beaten down" and still not be humble?
3. Do we really believe that God will be true to his word and remove
our defects?
MATTHEW 3:1 & 2 ---
1. What hinders us from repenting?
2. What are some practical acts of repentance that we can do?
PROVERBS 20:9
1. Can anyone say this? Why can't we say it?
PROVERBS 28:13 --
1. What is the difference between "confessing" and "renouncing"?
Give some examples of renouncing.
2. Is it possible for us to conceal sin from ourselves?
3. What does "prosper" mean to you as it is used here? What is
promised when we confess our sins?
PSALM 32:5 --
1. What does "cover up my iniquity" mean to you?
2. What should we do when we have "hidden sin" in our lives?
3. Do we "believe in our hearts" that, when we confess, God really
forgives us?
1 JOHN 1:9 --
1. What does God do for us when we confess our sins?
2. Have we really learned to receive God's forgiveness?
HEBREWS 11:6 ---
1. What does the word "faith" mean? How are we rewarded by God?
Note the word "earnestly".
2. Do we really expect God to remove our defects?
3. Can we picture God as a "rewarder"? Can we receive it if we do?
REMEMBER - WE CAN "TRUST" GOD!
STEP 7 - HUMBLY ASKED HIM TO REMOVE ALL OUR SHORTCOMINGS ASK HIM TO REMOVE
TO FORGIVE US - BELIEVING AND RECEIVING.
Psalm 41:4 - I said, "0 Lord have mercy on me; heal me, for I have sinned
against you".
Psalm 51:1-13 - Have mercy on me, 0 God, according to your unfailing love;
according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. Wash away all
my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin. For I know my transgressions, and
my sin is always before me. Against you, you only, have I sinned and done
what is evil in your sight, so that you are proved right when you speak and
justified when you judge. Surely I have been a sinner from birth, sinful
from the time my mother conceived me. Surely you desire truth in the inner
parts; you teach me wisdom in the inmost place. Cleanse me with hyssop, and
I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. Let me hear joy
and gladness; let the bones you have crushed rejoice. Hide your face from
my sins and blot out all iniquity. Create in me a pure heart, 0 God, and
renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me from your presence or
take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore me to the joy of your salvation and
grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me. Then I will teach transgressors
your ways, and sinners will turn back to you.
Proverbs 1:7 - The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge, but fools
despise wisdom and discipline.
Proverbs 15:33 - The fear of the Lord teaches a man wisdom, and humility
comes before honour.
Proverbs 22:4 - Humility and the fear of the Lord bring wealth and honor and
life.
Matthew 18:1-4 - At that time the disciples came to Jesus and asked "Who is
the greatest in the kingdom of heaven?" He called a little child and had him
stand among them. And he said "I tell you the truth, unless you change and
become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven.
Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this child is the greatest in the
kingdom of heaven".
Luke 18:10-14 - Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the
other a tax collector. The Pharisee stood up and prayed about himself; God,
I thank you that I am not like all other men - robbers, evildoers, adulterers
- or even like this tax collector. I fast twice a week and give a tenth of
all I get. But the tax collector stood at a distance. He would not even
look up to heaven, but beat his breast and said, "God, have mercy on me, a
sinner". I tell you that this man, rather than the other, went home
justified before God. For everyone who exalts himself will be humbled, and
he who humbles himself will be exalted.
1 Peter 5:6 & 7 - Humble yourselves, therefore, under God's mighty hand, that
he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he
cares for you.
Matthew 3:1 & 2 - In those days John the Baptist came preaching in the desert
of Judea and saying, "Repent, for the kingdom of heaven is near".
Proverbs 20:9 - Who can say "I have kept my heart pure; I am clean and
without sin".
Proverbs 28:13 - He who conceals his sin does not prosper, but whoever
confesses and renounces them finds mercy.
Psalm 32:5 - Then I acknowledged my sin to you and did not cover up my
iniquity. I said "I will confess my transgressions to the Lord" - and you
forgave the guilt of my sin.
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive
us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
Hebrews 11:6 - And without faith it is impossible to please God, because
anyone who comes to him must believe that he exists and is a rewarder of
those who earnestly seek him.
STEP 8 - MAKE A LIST OF ALL PERSONS WE HAD HARMED AND BECAME WILLING TO MAKE
AMENDS TO THEM ALL.
First we make a list then we "become willing", again, this is an example of
our doing our part and God doing His, because, "become willing" is another
work that has to happen in the heart.
When compiling our list we should not only list those we have harmed by "word
and deed" and the "sins of omission", but also, since unforgiveness can be
a root cause of much trouble in our lives, we should list those persons who
have harmed us as well. We understand that in some of these areas there may
still be a great deal of pain, but God wants us to trust Him so that He can
heal us.
PROVERBS 14:9 --
1. What is the difference between "mocking" and "good will"?
2. What connection is there between "good will" and "making amends"?
JOHN 13:34 & 35 --
1. Does this mean that we are to love others "right where they are at"?
2. Where did Jesus get his ability to love from?
3. How do the Commandments Jesus mentions in Matthew 22:37-40 differ
from this one?
MATTHEW 5:21 & 22 --
1. Can anger prevent us from "becoming willing to make amends"?
2. Do you think that holding anger and unforgiveness against another
can lead to an even greater sin in our lives?
3. What do these scriptures say we will receive when we regard others
with contempt?
1 JOHN 2:9 & 11 --
1. What does making amends have to do with "living in the light"?
2. Can we as Christians still live in darkness?
3. How can we be blinded by darkness? How do we come into the light?
MATTHEW 5:23 & 24 --
1. What does it mean to "offer your gift at the altar"?
2. What does it mean to "leave your gift there in front of the altar"?
3. Does this include "anyone" in our past?
MATTHEW 7:12 --
1. What were the "Law and the Prophets" pointing us toward?
2. When the scripture says "others", does this include our enemies?
3. Are we willing to treat others with the same kindness and respect
that we desire?
MARK 11:25 --
1. Does this scripture mean that if we don't forgive, we won't be
forgiven?
2. Are we holding anything against anyone? Are we willing to forgive?
3. Does lack of forgiveness on our part have any effect on the way our
prayers are answered?
PROVERBS 20:22 --
1. What does it mean, "wait for the Lord and he will deliver you"?
2. What if we wore to be "payed back" for everything?
3. What should we do when someone wrongs us?
PROVERBS 24:29 --
1. Why shouldn't we "pay that man back"?
2. Do you think it's up to us to punish others?
3. Does the desire to "get even" come back to us at times, even though
we have made the decision to forgive?
LUKE 6:27 & 28
1. If I hate my brother, is my life controlled by that hatred?
2. Are we able to do these things in our own strength?
MATTHEW 6:14 & 15
1. If we make others pay for their sins, how will the Father treat us?
2. Does this leave us any other choice but to forgive?
3. What is the similarity between this scripture and the one in the
Lord's Prayer?
1 PETER 4:7 & 8
1. Must we first be willing to forgive others before we can walk in
love and self-control?
2. What does the application of this Step have to do with being
"clear-minded and self-controlled"?
3. Are we really trying to love others, even the ones that we think
are unlovable?
4. What are the conditions for "effective" prayer?
STEP 8 - MADE A LIST OF ALL PERSONS WE HAVE HARMED AND BECAME WILLING TO MAKE
AMENDS TO THEM ALL.
Proverbs 14:9 - Fools mock at making amends for sin, but good will is found
among the upright.
John 13:34 & 35 - A new commandment I give you, love one another. As I have
loved you, so you must love one another. All men will know you are my
disciples if you love one another.
Matthew 5:21 & 22 - You have heard that it was said to the people long ago,
"Do not murder, and anyone who murders will be subject to the judgement." But
I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to the
judgement. Again, anyone who says to his brother, "Raca", is answerable to
the Sanhedrin. But anyone who says "You fool!" will be in danger of the fire
of hell.
1 John 2:9 - Anyone who claims to be in the light but hates his brother is
still in the darkness. Whoever loves his brother lives in the light, and
there is nothing in him to make him stumble. But whoever hates his brother
is in the darkness and walks around in the darkness; he does not know where
he is going, because the darkness has blinded him.
Matthew 5:23 & 24 - Therefore, if you are offering your gift at the altar and
there remember that your brother has something against you, leave your gift
there in front of the altar. First, go and be reconciled to your brother;
then come and offer your gift.
Matthew 7:12 - In everything, do to others what you would have them do to
you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Mark 11:25 - And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone,
forgive him, so that your Father in heaven may forgive your sins.
Proverbs 20:22 - Do not say, "I'll pay you back for this wrong!" Wait for the
Lord and he will deliver you.
Proverbs 24:29 - Do not say, "I'll do to him as he has done to me; I'll pay
that man back for what he did."
Luke 6:27 & 28 - But I tell you who hear me: "Love your enemies, do good to
those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who mistreat
you."
Matthew 6:14 & 15 - For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your
heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their
sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
1 Peter 4:7 & 8 - The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear-minded
and self-controlled so that can play. Above all, love each other deeply,
because love covers over a multitude of sins.
STEP 9 - MADE DIRECT AMENDS TO SUCH PEOPLE, WHEREVER POSSIBLE, EXCEPT WHEN
TO DO SO WOULD INJURE THEM OR OTHERS.
We make amends to people in many different ways. If we owe them money, we
pay them back. If we have hurt them or insulted them, we apologize. If
someone has harmed us, we forgive them. We do whatever we must in order to
be at peace with our fellow man and ourselves. We find that when we hold
resentments against someone or withhold something we owe to someone we cannot
walk in "freedom", for we are then spiritually tied to that person.
There may be some people we have harmed that we are unable to make amends to;
perhaps they have died or moved away. In these cases we make amends by
helping our fellow man, and since Jesus told us, "if we do good to our
neighbors we are doing good to Him", we are also making amends to God. We
may feel that we ourselves are the ones most in need of amends (and this may
be true), but God's plan is that we first "become willing" to make amends to
others. The amends to us are then manifested in the tremendous work that God
does in our hearts.
LUKE 20:25 --
1. The Step says to "make amends to people", do we also make amends
to God?
2. How do we make amends to God?
EZEKIEL 33:14 & 15 --
1. How do these scriptures relate to "making amends"?
2. Which of the amends listed are to man? Which ones are to God?
3. What do these scriptures mean to us personally? How do they relate
in our lives?
ROMANS 13:7 & 8 --
1. Which of the amends in Verse 7 is the hardest for you to give?
Give an example.
2. Are we paying our taxes and debts? Are we giving respect and honor
to the persons in our lives?
3. How does "loving your fellow man" fulfill the law?
PROVERBS 25:21 & 22 --
1. What does "heap burning coals on his head" mean to you?
2. Do we understand that we are not to extract payment; but that we
are to build up, restore and comfort?
3. When we forgive others, does the Lord "reward" us with forgiveness?
1 PETER 3:13
1. Did Jesus endure scorn and ridicule for the sake of love?
2. What should we do if, when we make amends, they are rejected?
3. Have you ever suffered for doing the right thing? Give an example.
MATTHEW 25:40
1. When we make amends to others, are we also making amends to God?
2. What does the scripture mean "the least of these brothers"?
3. Relate what this scripture means to you personally.
STEP 9 - MADE DIRECT AMENDS TO SUCH PEOPLE, WHEREVER POSSIBLE, EXCEPT WHEN
TO DO SO WOULD INJURE THEM OR OTHERS.
Luke 20:25 - Jesus said to them, "give to Caesar what is Caesars and give to
God what is Gods.
Ezekiel 33:14 & 15 - And if I say to the wicked man, "you shall surely die",
but then he turns away from his sin and does what is just and right - if he
gives back what he took in pledge for a loan, returns what he has stolen,
follows the decrees that give life, and does no evil; he will surely live,
he will not die.
Romans 13:7 & 8 - Give everyone what you owe him: If you owe taxes, pay
taxes; if revenue, then revenue; if respect, then respect; if honor, then
honor. Let no debt remain outstanding, except the continuing debt to love
one another, for he who loves his fellow man has fulfilled the law.
Proverbs 25:21 & 22 - If your enemy is hungry, give him food to eat; if he
is thirsty, give him water to drink. In doing this you will heap burning
coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you.
1 Peter 3:13 - Who is going to harm you if you are eager to do good? But
even if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed.
Matthew 25:40 - The King will reply, "I tell you the truth, whatever you did
for one of the least of these brothers of mine, you did for me."
STEP 10 - CONTINUED TO TAKE PERSONAL INVENTORY ANDWHEN WE WERE WRONG
PROMPTLY ADMITTED IT.
If we are to live for Christ we must continue to grow. A person who does not
continue to grow will slip back.
There is a great freedom in being able to admit to God and others when we are
wrong. It is a great discovery when we find out we do not always have to be
right. We speak with authority when we speak "God's Word" but, when we speak
"our words" we are sometimes wrong. In such cases, we promptly admit it and
are done with it. This eliminates any further buildup or "gunnysacking" of
wrongs, guilts and resentments.
God will continue to reveal those areas in our lives that must be gotten rid
of. As they arise we simply confess them, ask the Lord to forgive us, and
turn away from them.
1 PETER 1:22 & 23 ---
1. How have we purified ourselves?
2. What does "loving one another deeply" have to do with Step 10?
3. Birth is a beginning, not an end. Share how this Step, taken
daily, can help us grow.
LUKE 12:1-3 --
1. What does hypocrisy mean to you? Give an example of how you have
"guarded against" being a hypocrite.
2. Is "not admitting when we are wrong" a form of hypocrisy?
EPHESIANS 4:25 & 26 --
1. How is it possible to "be angry and sin not"?
2. Is anger a sin? What should we do if we get angry with our
brother?
3. What happens to us when we "let the sun go down" and are still
angry?
2 TIMOTHY 2:23 & 24 --
1. Can Christians still have stupid and foolish opinions? (Don't give
an example)
2. Should we argue with each other about scripture? If not, why not?
3. Does "promptly admitting when we are wrong" help us to avoid
"foolish and stupid arguments"?
2 TIMOTHY 2:14-16 --
1. How are we to "correctly handle the word of God"?
2. What are some of the ways that we can "present ourselves to God as
one approved"?
1 CORINTHIANS 13:4-7 --
1. Are you weak in any of these areas? Give an example.
2. How will "continuing to take a personal inventory" help us to live
out these scriptures?
1 CORINTHIANS 13:11
1. How do we determine what things in our lives are still childish?
2. Can growing be painful sometimes? Share an example, from your own
11 of how you have grown towards Christian maturity.
PHILIPPIANS 2:1-4 --
1. How does "continuing to take an inventory" help us to be "one in
spirit and in purpose"?
2. Unity is a life giving principle to Christians. Am I my for
brothers completely?
3. Sum up in one word what these scriptures are directing us to do.
ROMANS 12:3 --
1. Is it possible to look at ourselves as too lowly?
2. Can this Step help us to look at ourselves "with sober judgement"?
1 CORINTHIANS 10:12 & 13 --
1. What should we do if we are tempted to sin?
2. What are some of the ways God provides us so that we can stand?
3. Am I always standing as "firm" as I think I am?
1 JOHN 1:9 --
1. What recourse do we have if we sin?
2. It is necessary to "renounce" sin as well as to "confess" it?
3. What does the scripture say is our part? What is God's part?
1 JOHN 2:1 & 2 --
1. How is Jesus able to speak in our defense?
2. Is anyone excluded from the "atoning sacrifice" of Jesus?
3. Have we been able to accept God's forgiveness? Have we forgiven
ourselves?
HEBREWS 9:13 & 14 --
1. Do we understand, and have we received, the cleansing work of the
"blood"?
2. How does Step 10 help us to "cleanse our consciences"?
3. Can we compare what these scriptures are saying to, applying the
Steps before we knew Jesus and applying them now that we do know
him?
PHILIPPIANS 2:12-15 --
1. What does the statement "work out your salvation with fear and
trembling" mean to you?
2. Does the absence of complaining have anything to do with our
"becoming pure"?
3. Does this mean that it's possible to "become blameless and pure and
without fault"?
1 PETER 2:16 & 17 --
1. Are we using our freedom to "cover up" or to "bring light"?
2. What are some of the ways that we can misuse our freedom?
JAMES 1:22 --
1. Do we ever deceive ourselves by hearing and not doing?
2. What do we do to ourselves when we just listen to the words and
don't do what it says?
3. Are we applying both the Step and the scriptures in our lives?
STEP 10 - CONTINUED TO TAKE PERSONAL INVENTORY AND WHEN WE WERE WRONG
PROMPTLY ADMITTED IT.
1 Peter 1:22 & 23 - Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the
truth so that you have sincere love for your brothers, love one another
deeply, from the heart. For you have been born again, not of perishable
seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God.
Luke 12:1-3 - Jesus began first to speak to his disciples, saying: "Be on
guard against the yeast of the Pharisees, which is hypocrisy. There is
nothing concealed that will not be disclosed, or hidden that will not be made
known. What you have said in the dark will be heard in the daylight, and
what you have whispered in the ear in the inner rooms will be proclaimed from
the housetops."
Ephesians 4:25 & 26 - Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak
truthfully to his neighbor for we are all members of one body. "In your
anger do not sin": Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry.
2 Timothy 2:23 & 24 - Don't have anything to do with foolish and stupid
arguments, because you know they produce quarrels. And the Lord's servant
must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not
resentful.
2 Timothy 2:14-16 - Keep reminding them of these things. Warn them before
God against quarreling about words; it is of no value, and only ruins those
who listen. Do your best to present yourself to God as one approved, a
workman who does not need to be ashamed and who correctly handles the word
of truth. Avoid godless chatter, because those who indulge in it will become
more and more ungodly.
1 Corinthians 13:4-7 - Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it
does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it
is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight
in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
1 Corinthians 13:11 - When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought
like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I become a man, I put childish
ways behind me.
Philippians 2:1-4 - If you have any encouragement from being united with
Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if
any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-
minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose. Do nothing
out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others
greater than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own
interests, but also to the interests of others.
Romans 12:3 - Do not think of yourself more highly than you ought, but
rather think of yourself with sober judgement, in accordance with the measure
of faith God has given you.
1 Corinthians 10:12 & 13 - So, if you think you are standing firm, be careful
that you don't fall. No temptation has seized you except what is common to
man. And God is faithful; he will not let you be tempted beyond what you can
bear. But, when you are tempted, he will also provide a way out so that you
can stand up under it.
1 John 1:9 - If we confess our sins he is faithful and just and will
forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.
1 John 2:1 & 2 - My dear children, I write this to you so that you will not
sin. But if anybody does sin, we have one who speaks in our defense - Jesus
Christ, the Righteous One. He is the atoning sacrifice for our sins, and not
only for ours but also for the sins of the whole world.
Hebrews 9:13 & 14 - The blood of goats and bulls and the ashes of a heifer
sprinkled on those who are ceremonially unclean sanctify them so that they
are outwardly clean. How much more, then, will the blood of Christ, who
through the eternal Spirit offered himself unblemished to God, cleanse our
consciences from acts that lead to death, so that we may serve the living
God.
Philippians 2:12-15 - Therefore my dear friends, as you have always obeyed
- not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence - continue to work
out your salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you
to will and to act according to his good purpose. Do everything without
complaining or arguing, so that you may become blameless and pure, children
of God without fault in a crooked and depraved generation, in which you shine
like stars in the universe.
1 Peter 2:16 & 17 - Live as free men, but do not use your freedom as a cover-
up for evil; live as servants of God. Show proper respect for everyone:
Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king.
James 1:22 - Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves.
Do what it says.
STEP 11 - SOUGHT THROUGH PRAYER AND Meditation ON GOD'S WORD TO INCREASE OUR
FELLOWSHIP WITH HIM, PRAYING CONTINUALLY FOR THE KNOWLEDGE OF HIS
WILL FOR US AND THE POWER OF HIS MIGHT TO ACCOMPLISH IT.
James 4:8 says, "Come near to God and He will come near to you." As we
continue to pray and meditate we will become more attuned to the voice of the
Holy Spirit. Someone once said , "Prayer is talking to God and meditation
is listening to Him." We meditate by reading God's Word and then thinking
about it, turning it over in our minds until the Holy Spirit reveals its
meaning to us.
Once God begins revealing to us what His will for us is in our lives, we must
continue to seek His direction and the power needed to carry it out. We will
discover, as we practice this Step, how powerfully the Holy Spirit is working
in our lives and also, that the "good news of salvation" will have ever
increasing reality to us.
PROVERBS 4:20-22 --
1. Are you opening your heart to God's direction?
2. What four things are we directed to do, and why?
3. If you are doing these things, how has it changed your life?
PSALM 1:1-3 --
1. What three things are we blessed for not doing, and why?
2. What does the scripture say happens when we continually meditate on
the Lord?
3. Are we lining up with "God's word" or the "world's word"?
EPHESIANS 3:14-19 --
1. Do you have a specific time and place set aside for daily prayer?
2. Why do we need the "power" that Paul prays that we receive?
PSALM 19:14 --
1. What does "the meditation of my heart" mean to you?
2. Do you think that "what you say" and the "meditation of your heart"
are connected?
PSALM 40:8 --
1. What does it mean "your law is within my heart"?
2. When does God "write his law" on our hearts? (Hebrews 8:10)
3. Has this happened in your life? Explain.
PSALM 119-10 & 11 --
1. What should our attitude towards God be? Why should we know his word?
2. What does it mean to "hide God's word in our hearts"?
3. Do we set aside time daily for study and meditation on God's word?
How much?
PSALM 143:10 --
1. What shall we seek from God and where will it lead us?
2. Has there been any "leveling of the ground" in your life since you
have begun allowing God to be God instead of yourself?
MATTHEW 12:50 --
1. What is the "will of the Father"? How can we know it?
2. When we do God's will, what is our relationship with Jesus?
LUKE 6:12 --
1. Why did Jesus need to get alone with the Father?
2. When we are troubled, how often do we "spend the night in prayer"?
3. Do we set aside time to just commune with the Father? How much?
MATTHEW 6:5-13 --
1. Do we spend most of our prayer time in the "closet" or in the
"assembly"?
2. How do I pray in public? How do I pray in private? Do they differ?
3. If God already "knows our needs", why should we pray?
MATTHEW 7:7 & 8 --
1. What does "ask", "seek", and "knock" mean to you? How are they
different?
2. What does the word promise if we seek God?
3. Should we just pray once about a situation, or should we continue to
pray?
JOHN 16:23 & 24 --
1. Are we to pray to Jesus, the Father, or both?
2. Does the scripture really mean the Father will give us "anything" we
ask for in Jesus name?
3. Are we learning to pray scripturally? Do we expect answers to our
prayers?
ACTS 1:14 --
1. What does it mean to be "united in prayer"?
2. Do we still pray as they did in the early church, or was that just for
then?
ACTS 4:29-31 --
1. Can we still expect that "signs and wonders" will happen to and
through us?
2. What were they praying for? To glorify whose name?
2 CORINTHIANS 10:4 & 5 --
1. What are the weapons of the believer? What are the weapons of the
world?
2. How many of our thoughts are we to take captive for Christ? Is this
possible?
MATTHEW 18:18-20 --
1. Is this really true? Will God really do this? Is his presence really
here?
2. What does "to bind" mean? What does "to loose" mean? How do we
"agree"?
3. How should we pray when we come together? What does God promise will
happen?
EPHESIANS 6:18 --
1. How should we pray? What should we pray for?
2. Why do we need to "keep alert"?
3. Why should we "keep praying for all the saints"? Who are the saints?
MATTHEW 26:41 --
1. How do we "watch and pray"? Why?
2. If we are "new creations", why is the "body weak"?
1 THESSALONIANS 5:16-18 --
1. What does "always", "continually" and "all" mean to you?
2. Does "circumstances" include both the good and the bad?
3. Is it possible to: "be joyful in all things", "pray continually" and
"give thanks in all circumstances"? How do we know?
STEP 11 - SOUGHT THROUGH PRAYER AND MEDITATION ON GOD'S WORD TO INCREASE OUR
FELLOWSHIP WITH HIM, PRAYING CONTINUALLY FOR THE KNOWLEDGE OF HIS
WILL FOR US AND THE POWER OF HIS MIGHT TO ACCOMPLISH IT.
GOD'S DIRECTION AND REWARD
Proverbs 4:20-22 - My son, pay attention to what I say; listen closely to my
words. Do not let them out of your sight; keep them within your heart; for
they are life to those who find them and health to a man's whole body.
Psalm 1:1-3 - Blessed is the man who does not walk in the counsel of the
wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers. But his
delight is in the law of the Lord, and on his law he meditates day and night.
He is like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in
season and whose leaf does not wither.
PAUL'S PRAYER FOR US (PERSONALIZE)
Ephesians 3:14-19 - For this reason I kneel before the Father, from whom his
whole family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that our of his
glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your
inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I
pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together
with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love
of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge - that you may be
filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.
OUR HEARTS DESIRE (GIVEN BY GOD)
Psalm 19:14 - May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be
pleasing in your sight, 0 Lord, my Rock and Redeemer.
Psalm 40:8 - To do your will, 0 my God, is my desire; your law is within my
heart.
Psalm 119:10 & 11 - I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from
your commands. I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin
against you.
Psalm 143:10 - Teach me to do your will, for you are my God; may your good
Spirit lead me on level ground.
Matthew 12:50 - For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my
brother and sister and mother.
PRAYER - IN THE CLOSET
Luke 6:12 - One of those days Jesus went out into the hills to pray, and
spent the night praying to God.
Matthew 6:5-13 - But when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they
love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen
by men. I tell you the truth, they have received their reward in full. When
you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is
unseen. Then your Father who sees what is done in secret, will reward you.
And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they
will be heard because of their many words.
Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.
This is how you should pray: "Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name,
your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Give us
today our daily bread. Forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our
debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.
Matthew 7:7 & 8 - Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find;
knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives;
he who seeks finds; and to him who knocks, the door will be opened.
John 16:23 & 24 - In that day you will no longer ask me anything. I tell
you the truth, my Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. Until
now you have not asked for anything in my name. Ask and you will receive,
and your joy will be complete.
PRAYER - IN AGREEMENT WITH OTHERS
Acts 1:14 - They all joined together constantly in prayer, along with the
women and Mary the mother of Jesus, and his brothers.
Acts 4:29-31 - Now, Lord, consider their threats and enable your servants to
speak your word with great boldness. Stretch out your hand to heal and
perform miraculous signs and wonders through the name of your holy servant
Jesus. After they prayed, the place where they were meeting was shaken. And
they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and spoke the word of God boldly.
2 Corinthians 10:4 & 5 - The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of
the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds.
We demolish arguments and every pretention that sets itself against the
knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to
Christ.
Matthew 18:18-20 - "I tell you the truth, whatever you bind on earth will be
bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.
Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask
for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven. For where two or three
come together in my name, there I am with them.
PRAYER - WHERE, WHEN, WHY AND HOW
Ephesians 6:18 - And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of
prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying
for all the saints.
Matthew 26:41 - "Watch and pray so that you will not fall into temptation.
The spirit is willing but the body is weak."
1 Thessalonians 5:16-18 - Be joyful always; pray continually; give thanks in
all circumstances, for this is God's will for you in Christ Jesus.
STEP 12 - HAVING BEEN SPIRITUALLY RESTORED AND SET FREE FROM "THE SIN WHICH
DOES SO EASILY BESET US", WE ATTEMPT TO SHARE THIS FREEDOM AND THE
ONE WHO HAS FREED US WITH THOSE WHO STILL SUFFER, AND PRACTICE THE
LORD'S PRINCIPLES IN ALL OUR AFFAIRS.
This is a tri-part Step with the second and third parts proceeding from the
first. First is the spiritual restoration that we receive when we accept
Jesus Christ into our lives thereby experiencing the rebirth of our spiritual
nature and the coming into right relationships with God the Father.
Secondly, God tells us "Freely we have received, freely we are to give" this
is one of the principles that God gives us, "we can't keep what we don't give
away". If having Jesus in our lives is the greatest thing that ever happened
to us, nothing will be able to stop us from sharing Him with others. Then,
finally, practicing the Lord's principles becomes an on-going, one day at a
time, way of living in which we will continue to grow in the Lord and be
"transformed from glory to glory".
ACTS 1:8 --
1. When do we receive power? Why do we receive it?
2. How can I be an effective witness? Who enables me to be?
2 CORINTHIANS 1:3 & 4
1. How does God comfort us? Why does he comfort us?
2. Can we comfort others if we ourselves haven't been comforted?
3. Can our understanding of addiction in AC enable us to minister more
effectively to those who have been addicted.
GALATIANS 6:1 & 2 --
1. What should we do when "someone is caught in a sin"? Why should we
"watch ourselves"?
2. How do we "restore someone gently". Why?
3. What does it mean to "carry each others burdens"?
1 PETER 5:8 & 9 --
1. What has self-control to do with resisting evil? (Romans 12:9-21)
2. Do we know who our enemy is? Give an example of "standing firm".
3. How do we resist the devil?
JUDE 20-23 --
1. Whose faith are we "building ourselves up in", and whose spirit do
we pray in?
2. What three things do the scriptures direct us to do concerning
others?
2 TIMOTHY 4:3-5 --
1. What four things do these scriptures direct us to do?
2. How many situations are we directed to "keep our heads" in?
MATTHEW 10:32 & 33 --
1. How do we "acknowledge him"? How can we "disown" him?
2. Who restored us and keeps us sane and sober? Who is it that we need
to share with others?
ROMANS 10:14-17 --
1. What is the "good news"?
2. How does faith come to the unbeliever? What part do we have in it?
3. Are we to carry the alcoholic or the message?
MATTHEW 9:35-38 --
1. What did Jesus experience when he saw the crowds?
Is the lack of what he experienced why the workers
are so few?
2. Have we been called? Have we been sent?
3. What should our desire be today?
MATTHEW 10:7 & 8 --
1. Are we supposed to do these things today? Are we
able?
2. How are we to help the "harassed and helpless"?
What kind of spirit are we to minister in?
3. What value do we place on our freedom? Are we
willing to share it with others?
1 CORINTHIANS 9:19-23 --
1. What does it mean to become "as one under the law"
or "as one not under the law"?
2. What am I willing to become in order to be used by
God to lead people to Christ?
JOHN 8:31 & 32 --
1. How do we become disciples of Jesus. How can
"knowing the truth" set us free?
2. When do we know "the truth that sets us free"?
3. According to these scriptures, which comes first;
obedience, knowledge or freedom?
JOHN 15:7 & 8
1. When will "whatever we wish" be given to us? Why?
2. What are the conditions for asking and receiving?
3. How do we bring glory to the Father? What are his
promises to us for remaining in his word?
JOHN 15:15-17 --
1. Why does Jesus call us his friends?
2. What is "the master's business"? (John 3:17)
3. Who does the choosing? Why?
4. Are you aware of who you belong to? Why?
1 PETER 4:7 & 8
1. What does self-control and clear-mindedness have
to do with prayer?
2. Is love a gift? Can you give it if you don't have
it?
3. Why should we "love each other deeply"?
STEP 12 - HAVING BEEN SPIRITUALLY RESTORED AND SET FREE FROM "THE SIN WHICH
DOES SO EASILY BESET US". WE ATTEMPT TO SHARE THIS FREEDOM AND THE ONE WHO
HAS FREED US WITH THOSE WHO STILL SUFFER, AND PRACTICE THE LORD'S PRINCIPLES
IN ALL OUR AFFAIRS.
Acts 1:8 - But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes on you; and
you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem, and in Judea and Samaria and to the
ends of the earth.
2 Corinthians 1:3 & 4 - Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus
Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, who comforts us
in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the
comfort we ourselves have received from God.
Galatians 6:1 & 2 - Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are
spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you may also be
tempted. Carry each other's burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the
law of Christ.
1 Peter 5:8 & 9 - Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls
around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him,
standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout
the world are undergoing the same kinds of suffering.
Jude 20-23 - But you dear friends, build yourselves up in your most holy
faith and pray in the Holy Spirit. Keep yourselves in God's love as you wait
for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ to bring you to eternal life. Be
merciful to those who doubt; snatch others from the fire and save them; to
others show mercy, mixed with fear - hating even the clothing stained by
corrupted flesh.
2 Timothy 4:3-5 - For the time will come when men will not put up with sound
doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather around them
a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They
will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths. But you,
keep your head in all situations, endure hardship, do the work of an
evangelist, discharge all the duties of your ministry.
Matthew 10:32 & 33 - Whoever acknowledges me before men, I will also
acknowledge him before my Father in heaven. But whoever disowns me before
men, I will disown him before my Father in heaven.
Romans 10:14-17 - How, then, can they call on the one they have not believed
in? And how can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard? And
how can they hear without someone preaching to them? And how can they preach
unless they are sent? As it is written, "How beautiful are the feet of those
who bring good news." But not all the Israelites accepted the good news. For
Isaiah says, "Lord, who has believed our message?" Consequently, faith comes
from hearing the message, and the message is heard through the word of
Christ.
Matthew 9:35-38 - Jesus went through all the towns and villages, teaching in
their synagogues, preaching the good news of the kingdom and healing every
disease and sickness. When he saw the crowds, he had compassion on them,
because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then
he said to his disciples, "The harvest is plentiful but the workers are few.
Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into his harvest
field."
Matthew 10:7 & 8 - As you go, preach this message; "The kingdom of heaven is
near." Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse those who have leprosy, drive
out demons. Freely you have received, freely give.
1 Corinthians 9:19-23 - Though I am free and belong to no man, I make myself
a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible. To the Jews I become like
a Jew, to win the Jews. To those under the law I become like one under the
law (though I myself am not under the law), so as to win those under the law.
To those not having the law I become like one not having the law (though I
am not free from God's law but am under Christ's law), so as to win those not
having the law. To the weak I become weak, to win the weak. I have become
all things to all men so that by all possible means I might save some. I do
all this for the sake of the gospel, that I might share in its blessings.
John 8:31 & 32 - To the Jews who had believed him, Jesus said "If you hold
to my teaching, you are really my disciples. Then you will know the truth
and the truth will set you free".
John 15:7 & 8 - If you remain in me and my words remain in you, ask
whatever you wish, and it will be given you. This is to my Fathers glory,
that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples.
John 15:15-17 - I no longer call you servants, because a servant does not
know his master's business. Instead, I have called you friends, for
everything that I learned from my Father I have made known to you. You did
not choose me, but I chose you to go and bear fruit - fruit that will last.
Then the Father will give you whatever you ask in my name. This is my
command: Love each other.
1 Peter 4:7 & 8 - The end of all things is near. Therefore be clear-minded
and self-controlled so that you can pray. Above all, love each other deeply,
because love covers over a multitude of sins.
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